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>From: Ms fulop aniko <fulaniko@yaho...>
>Reply-To: nanny-club@goog...
>To: nanny-club@goog...
>Subject: Re: nanny-parent relationships
>Date: Sat, 2 Dec 2006 17:59:18 -0800 (PST)
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>remove me
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>            remove me
>     ----- Original Message -----
>   From: John Papendick
>   To: nanny-club@goog...
>   Cc: abuse@goog...
>   Sent: Saturday, December 02, 2006 7:50 PM
>   Subject: RE: nanny-parent relationships
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>   Attention Googlegroups Admin and all those being spammed by nanny-club:
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>   The account of nanny-club has been spamming hundreds of people that
>never opted in with their group. Please suspend this account IMMEDIATELY!!!
>
>   Nanny-club, you have messed with the wrong bunch of people. All those in
>agreement with me, please “reply to all” from this message so we can shut
>‘em down!!!
>
>   THANKS!!
>
>   John
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>   From: nanny-club@goog... [mailto:nanny-club@goog...]
>On Behalf Of Tiffany Buot
>Sent: Saturday, December 02, 2006 4:39 PM
>To: nanny-club@goog...
>Subject: Re: nanny-parent relationships
>
>
>       TAKE ME OFF YOUR LIST
>NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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>       ----- Original Message -----
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>     From: nina vainio
>
>     To: nanny-club@goog...
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>     Sent: Saturday, December 02, 2006 2:36 PM
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>     Subject: Re: nanny-parent relationships
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>     why am i getting all these emails??????????? REMOVE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!
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>   From: "Tiffany Buot" <tiffanybuot@hotm...>
>Reply-To: nanny-club@goog...
>To: <nanny-club@goog...>
>Subject: Re: nanny-parent relationships
>Date: Sat, 2 Dec 2006 14:34:19 -0700
>       REMOVE ME NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I didn't sign up for this
>
>       ----- Original Message -----
>
>     From: Millie
>
>     To: nanny-club@goog...
>
>     Sent: Saturday, December 02, 2006 1:24 PM
>
>     Subject: RE: nanny-parent relationships
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>   Remove me, I did not sign up for this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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>   From: nanny-club@goog... [mailto:nanny-club@goog...]
>On Behalf Of chansonettte@aol....
>Sent: Saturday, December 02, 2006 3:20 PM
>To: nanny-club@goog...
>Subject: Re: nanny-parent relationships
>
>
>     I am not sure how I got onto this list either, but as a nanny, I agree
>with the last email.  I have been fairly lucky with most of the families I
>have worked for, but some of the problems I encountered are similar to what
>she said:  The parents often want the nanny to do ALL of the parenting, and
>then they completely undermine the work you do, as well as not do any of it
>themselves.  I have been lucky enough to be fairly well-paid, but had to
>quit my last job as 60 hour work-weeks were overwhelming, especially when
>the parents often came home late with no notice.  I have a bachelor's
>degree and am completing my master's degree in speech-language pathology,
>and happen to know more than one other nanny who is in the same arena
>educationally; hence, although I realize some nannies may be under-educated
>for the position and/or don't do their jobs properly, I think it is
>important to note that many of the parents are not doing THEIR jobs
>properly either, as a parent OR as an
>  employer.  It seems as though many families flip back and forth between
>treating their nannies as employees OR as "part of the family" whenever it
>suits them, be it regarding pay, or "helping out" (meaning, working for
>free) at their child's birthday party.
>
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>     I think there is often a lack of communication on both parts in the
>nanny-parent relationship, on all levels and about many issues.  This, as
>the last nanny pointed out, is probably what causes most of the problems.
>
>
>
>
>-----Original Message-----
>From: goldilocks1464@yaho...
>To: nanny-club@goog...
>Sent: Sat, 2 Dec 2006 12:01 PM
>Subject: Re: nanny-parent relationships
>       As a former nanny, I feel I need to speak up on behalf of nannies.
>Often, nannies are taken advantage of, are asked to do things that are way
>out of line with caring for the children and running the household. Many
>times nannies are left to do the bulk of the parenting and then the parents
>do not provide any consistency in the nanny's absence. Nanny's have one of
>the most important jobs, along with teachers, yet are under-appreciated,
>over worked, and underpaid. Not all lack language skills, in fact, many
>have degrees and are intelligent, educated people with much to offer their
>families.
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>     I think in a nanny-parent relationship, you get what you give. Though
>the families I worked with had some difficult issues, we had a mutual
>respect of each other and communicated constantly in regards to the
>children and household. I finally had to leave the field because I could
>not support my own family with the pay I was making and working 50-60 hour
>weeks allowed no time for me to get another job. If you're going to entrust
>your child's care, education, and upraising to another person for the bulk
>of the work week, shouldn't you pay them well to do such a valuable job?
>
>"elaineosteen@yaho..." <elaineosteen@yaho...> wrote:
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>
>I am doing research about the dynamics of nanny-parent relationships
>and wonder what kinds of problems exist in the communication between
>them. Any ideas you can share?
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